Sunday, March 11, 2012

Life Advice N Motivation -Week 6: Choosing friends

Friends. They love us, They hurt us, They leave us, They are there for us, they do stupid things with us. But Who are they? Do we really need them? And if we do, what impact do they have and which are the right ones for us? 
Naturally, we attract to those who are similar to ourselves in character - hobbies, likes, dislikes, principles, values , morals. but sometimes our friends dont do us the favour of being benefitial motivationally. 
Friends are like habits, you have good ones and bad ones and both effect you the same way as good or bad habits do. Being able to complement the goals you have in your life with the right people is an important thing. 
for example if you have goals of being successful in school or in your career choice, would it be better to make friends with people who are extra curricularly involved in things related or not related to what your major focus in life is?

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."- Anais Nin 

The following quote shows us that friends become a part of us, and influence us hugely. 
every one can make friends easily if we realy try, but life advice and motivation says, in life we must cut out the wrong people in our lives, just like how we should cut out our bad habits, such as eating too much salt, or smoking. the more we intake something that leads us to unhealthy things, the more we have a negative and down hill effect on ourselves. The truth is, the people we let into our lives usualy have a bigger negative impact on us than our regular habits that we take part in.

This week on life advice & motivation, we want you to re-evaluate your friends and the people in your life that impact it negitivily. this week is all about observing who is good for us and who is bad for us and who we need to get rid of in our lives in order to live better and reach certain goals. 
This weeks video talks about cutting off destructive relationships with people who have a negative effect on us in our lives and prevent us from reaching our goals. 

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