Life Advice N Motivation -Week 11: Faceing The Painful Truth

This week on life advice and motivation, we talk about....

The Truth.
Or perhaps its better to say The Truths of life because there is more than one truth in life.

Sometimes truths of life that we come to face are amazing, other times they are painful and ugly. so much so that we can barely go on at peace in our lives.

at times things are so bad that we have no motivation to go on. we lose all hope in everything.

A great strength comes from being able to accept what is before us and move forward through the obstacles.

accepting things such as death, loss, failure, or rejection, become a challenge.

So we ask, how do we face a truth that is painful?

well life, advice, & motivation says

accepting, surrendering and becoming aware of the pressent moment is key!.

often times we make assumptions or start to overthink situations, making it hard to accept the situation before us as it is.

a famous quote by eckhart tolle : we look at reality through the screen of our thinking and our judgment which is conditioned by the past.

being able to deal with a situation that hurts us means we have to accept it and move forward.
Moving forward to finding the next best possible solution

this week on life advice and motivation we want you to find the next best solution to a problem or truth that you face in your life that hurts you so badly.

Remember, What doesnt kill you makes you stronger!!

next weeks topic ! saying goodbye !!

Life Advice N Motivation -Week 6: Choosing friends

Friends. They love us, They hurt us, They leave us, They are there for us, they do stupid things with us. But Who are they? Do we really need them? And if we do, what impact do they have and which are the right ones for us? 
Naturally, we attract to those who are similar to ourselves in character - hobbies, likes, dislikes, principles, values , morals. but sometimes our friends dont do us the favour of being benefitial motivationally. 
Friends are like habits, you have good ones and bad ones and both effect you the same way as good or bad habits do. Being able to complement the goals you have in your life with the right people is an important thing. 
for example if you have goals of being successful in school or in your career choice, would it be better to make friends with people who are extra curricularly involved in things related or not related to what your major focus in life is?

"Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."- Anais Nin 

The following quote shows us that friends become a part of us, and influence us hugely. 
every one can make friends easily if we realy try, but life advice and motivation says, in life we must cut out the wrong people in our lives, just like how we should cut out our bad habits, such as eating too much salt, or smoking. the more we intake something that leads us to unhealthy things, the more we have a negative and down hill effect on ourselves. The truth is, the people we let into our lives usualy have a bigger negative impact on us than our regular habits that we take part in.

This week on life advice & motivation, we want you to re-evaluate your friends and the people in your life that impact it negitivily. this week is all about observing who is good for us and who is bad for us and who we need to get rid of in our lives in order to live better and reach certain goals. 
This weeks video talks about cutting off destructive relationships with people who have a negative effect on us in our lives and prevent us from reaching our goals.